Make the choice to be happy. The biggest part of being happy is to simply make up your mind to be a happy person. Regardless of your past, take account your present and future. I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this. No one can take away what's trurly yours..so if they took it away, it wasn't yours. Something better is on its way!